Mentoring/Alumni relations

DeAnne Dotson akadeanne@nc.rr.com
Sat, 5 Jan 2002 12:09:37 -0600


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Colin,

Simply put, if you don't like the idea, don't do it.

No one will be forcing any sort of relationship or time commitment on =
anybody.  At best it will give some students a contact outside the =
bubble of S&M, and at worst, not used.  Perhaps you never experienced =
any problems with RAs or Admin or teachers while you were there, but I =
sure did, as did a number of my classmates.  I would have loved an =
experienced ear to bounce my concerns off of.  Add to that somebody to =
come by and take me out to lunch...  what a deal!!!!

Basically I think what we are trying to do is help out the students =
directly (instead of blindly throwing money at the school).  It will =
also give us Alumni some current contact with the school and lots of =
warm fuzzy feelings to brag about to our friends.  (Just picture it:  =
Oppressive, blue haired Auntie Alumni pinching the cherub cheeks of her =
very own quaky-kneed, bespeckled S&Mer.)
  =20
While the details have not been ironed out, I am certain it will be =
OPTIONAL with varying levels of participation available for both sides.  =


I appreciate you thoughts on the subject.  As a very recent graduate, =
you must have some ideas as to what us Alumns can do to help out the =
current students.  I'd love to hear them.=20

 DeAnne '86

 =20
  ----- Original Message -----=20
  From: Colin Dietch=20
  To: alumni@ncssm.net=20
  Sent: Saturday, January 05, 2002 2:21 AM
  Subject: Mentoring/Alumni relations



  I believe that any program, regardless of the zeal with which it is =
promoted, will be met with apathy and a few sneering remarks at the =
receiving end... =20

  And one must remember how extraordinarily busy science and mathers =
tend to be...

  It is wonderful that NCSSM has such an active Alumni community...=20

  While I look forward to meeting future graduates...

  So pardon my negativity...

     - Colin Dietch '01



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<DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2>Colin,</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2></FONT>&nbsp;</DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2>Simply put, if you don't like the idea, =
don't do=20
it.</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2></FONT>&nbsp;</DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2>No one will be forcing any sort of =
relationship or=20
time commitment on anybody.&nbsp; At best it will give some students a =
contact=20
outside the bubble of S&amp;M, and at worst, not used.&nbsp; Perhaps you =
never=20
experienced any problems with RAs or Admin or teachers while you were =
there, but=20
I sure did, as did a number of my classmates.&nbsp; I would have loved =
an=20
experienced ear to bounce my concerns off of.&nbsp; Add to that somebody =
to come=20
by and take me out to lunch...&nbsp; what a deal!!!!</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2></FONT>&nbsp;</DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2>Basically I think what we are trying to =
do is help=20
out the students&nbsp;directly (instead of&nbsp;blindly throwing money =
at the=20
school).&nbsp; It will also give us Alumni some current contact with the =
school=20
and lots of warm fuzzy feelings to brag about to our friends.&nbsp; =
(Just=20
picture it:&nbsp; Oppressive, blue&nbsp;haired Auntie =
Alumni&nbsp;pinching the=20
cherub cheeks&nbsp;of her&nbsp;very own quaky-kneed, bespeckled=20
S&amp;Mer.)</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2>While the details have not been ironed =
out, I am=20
certain it will be OPTIONAL with varying levels of participation =
available=20
for&nbsp;both sides.&nbsp; </FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2></FONT>&nbsp;</DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2>I appreciate you thoughts on the =
subject.&nbsp; As=20
a very recent graduate, you&nbsp;must have some ideas as to what =
us&nbsp;Alumns=20
can&nbsp;do to help&nbsp;out the current students.&nbsp; I'd love to =
hear=20
them.&nbsp;</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2></FONT>&nbsp;</DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2>&nbsp;</FONT><FONT face=3DArial =
size=3D2>DeAnne=20
'86</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2></FONT>&nbsp;</DIV>
<DIV>&nbsp;&nbsp;</DIV>
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black"><B>From:</B>=20
  <A title=3Dcdietch@udel.edu href=3D"mailto:cdietch@udel.edu">Colin =
Dietch</A>=20
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  <DIV style=3D"FONT: 10pt arial"><B>To:</B> <A title=3Dalumni@ncssm.net =

  href=3D"mailto:alumni@ncssm.net">alumni@ncssm.net</A> </DIV>
  <DIV style=3D"FONT: 10pt arial"><B>Sent:</B> Saturday, January 05, =
2002 2:21=20
  AM</DIV>
  <DIV style=3D"FONT: 10pt arial"><B>Subject:</B> Mentoring/Alumni =
relations</DIV>
  <DIV><BR></DIV>
  <DIV><FONT size=3D2><FONT size=3D2>
  <DIV>&nbsp;</DIV>
  <DIV>I believe that any program, regardless of the zeal with which it =
is=20
  promoted, will be met with apathy and a few sneering remarks at the =
receiving=20
  end...&nbsp;&nbsp;</DIV>
  <DIV>&nbsp;</DIV>
  <DIV>And one must remember how extraordinarily busy science and =
mathers tend=20
  to be...</DIV>
  <DIV><FONT face=3DArial></FONT>&nbsp;</DIV>
  <DIV>It is wonderful that NCSSM has such an active Alumni community... =
</DIV>
  <DIV><FONT face=3DArial></FONT>&nbsp;</DIV>
  <DIV>While I look forward to meeting future graduates...</DIV>
  <DIV><FONT face=3DArial></FONT>&nbsp;</DIV>
  <DIV>So pardon my negativity...</DIV>
  <DIV>&nbsp;</DIV>
  <DIV>&nbsp;&nbsp; - Colin Dietch '01</FONT></DIV></FONT></DIV>
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